The courtship must not stop with the marriage.įamous Businssman Mr. A relationship between a husband and wife thrives on courtship - being actively engaged in each other - with marriage being just one of the milestones of life. She realises that she has become completely dependant on Rudra - emotionally, financially, socially - and she was suddenly not sure if she likes it. One day she realised that she has lost touch with all her friends and have not made any new friends. Too many new things in her life - new home, new identity, new routine, new clothes & jewelry, too many new people to meet and places to go. Life was a fairy tale for a year after then wedding.
She surrendered to him even before the wedding. She had no problem is accepting him as a husband. Charu was hesitant but Rudra said he will get the house and Charu will make it a home. Rudra bought a nice apartment and said that both of them will become the co-owners. Rudra said it's his problem to convince them.
Charu loved the idea but was apprehensive that her in laws would not like the idea. Rudra suggested that after the marriage they should live separately. Rudra talks well, in fact a bit too much, but he has a great life ahead. He is definitely more presentable than the husbands or fiancés or boyfriends of her other friends or cousins. In Rudra, Charu saw a handsome, confident young man who can give her a great married life. He decided that he will be a very progressive loving husband. His parents would proudly present her to the family as the daughter in law and he can proudly present her to his world as his wife. What more would a girl want? In Charu he saw a girl who would make a great wife. He is slightly nervous about making a girl fall in love with him but he thinks his credentials will win her over. Economics and IIM both are pretty dull as far as girl scene goes and anyway he was concentrating in giving himself a great career. He knows that he is a supatro and will be a prized catch for parents with grown up daughters. There is an air of success and confidence around him. After economics and IIM he is a hot shot investment banker - flying high.
So when her parents suggested that she should meet Rudra, she was quite happy. She's 23, MA in History from a prestigious college, belongs to a well established family, modern (meaning looks good in jeans and can speak fluent English) but conservative (meaning she has no ambition of a corporate career). in the matrimonial columns of ABP she would receive many thousand replies. Charu is a modern day girl born and brought up in Kolkata.